{"id":3941,"date":"2026-10-13T13:26:53","date_gmt":"2026-10-13T05:26:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/?p=3941"},"modified":"2026-10-13T13:26:54","modified_gmt":"2026-10-13T05:26:54","slug":"a-matter-of-perspective","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/a-matter-of-perspective\/","title":{"rendered":"A Matter of Perspective"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/20261003-R5-0001.jpg?resize=1170%2C847&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"A Matter of Perspective\" width=\"1170\" height=\"847\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3942\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/20261003-R5-0001.jpg?w=1808&amp;ssl=1 1808w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/20261003-R5-0001.jpg?resize=900%2C652&amp;ssl=1 900w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/20261003-R5-0001.jpg?resize=124%2C90&amp;ssl=1 124w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/20261003-R5-0001.jpg?resize=768%2C556&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/20261003-R5-0001.jpg?resize=1536%2C1112&amp;ssl=1 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1170px) 100vw, 1170px\" \/><br \/>\nI took this photograph recently at the Botanical Gardens and thought how much it reminded me of Dad&#8217;s later works, when he became increasingly interested in reflections and abstractions. I suppose some of his photographic eye has rubbed off on me.<\/p>\n<p>Photography has taught me that what we see isn&#8217;t always the whole picture. Much depends on our perspective and how we interpret what is in front of us.<\/p>\n<p>I think the same applies to people.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes people forget things. Sometimes they get distracted or simply have other things on their minds. It doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean they don&#8217;t care, or that we&#8217;re any less important to them.<\/p>\n<p>We all have different personalities, priorities and ways of expressing affection. What matters greatly to one person may not carry the same significance for another.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps life would be a little happier if we stopped taking everything so personally and learnt to give one another the benefit of the doubt.<\/p>\n<p>Not every disappointment needs to become a grievance.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/20261003-R5-0001-124x90.jpg\" alt=\"A Matter of Perspective\" width=\"124\" height=\"90\" class=\"alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-3942\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/20261003-R5-0001.jpg?resize=124%2C90&amp;ssl=1 124w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/20261003-R5-0001.jpg?resize=900%2C652&amp;ssl=1 900w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/20261003-R5-0001.jpg?resize=768%2C556&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/20261003-R5-0001.jpg?resize=1536%2C1112&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/20261003-R5-0001.jpg?w=1808&amp;ssl=1 1808w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 124px) 100vw, 124px\" \/>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[14,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3941","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-expression","category-nature","entry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/przUn-11z","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3941","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3941"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3941\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3943,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3941\/revisions\/3943"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3941"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3941"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcreations.org\/engloy\/photoblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3941"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}